The Detour

How many people are given a chance to do a detour in life? Many would choose to stay stagnant in their comfort zone and be it the rest of their life. Minor arguments in relationship some says it build up stronger rapport and faith others may debate it in another. People tend to say things out of anger to spite another party whom they might by piss with. Why dont I? Its not because i cant, its just that i know once something is said, that something may not cause any disturbance to yourself but the its always clearly captured into the ears of the other party. I used to be cursing and swearing for the half of my life blaming on who ever i can push the blame onto other than myself.

But I'hv learn my lesson by seeing myself in the other. A total me the unreasonable and outrages hotheaded me. Of most of the time i would choose not to flare and be patient. The short tempered me in the past forgets what i said in a click moments after i flared, but left a hurting verbal abused in others. I'hv come to learn that to forgive is also part of the generous me. Or maybe after so much of pounding and piling i dont get to puke that often. Parts and puzzles of life to never stop learning.

I hear this from a good friend of mine. A super nice person, always care for others and never wants anything in return, One wrong step, that person score him or herself a black spot on a clean sheet of paper. That obvious dot on the white. People start to look only on that tiny black spot.

A super selfish person, who never spare a thought of other's feeling, what ever that person do, he or she want to see a return. When that person try to care and changes just a little, he or she score a white spot on his black sheet of paper. That obvious white dot on a black sheet of paper. It goes the same way, people tend to focus only on the obvious.