Moving on in life

Moving on in life, in work, sch and relationships. I start to take a very different approach, relationship to me transforms itself to become optional. As i can still lead my happy life without a relationship.Work and sch are needs. In relationship i decided not to care that much as eventually one who doesnt not withstand a storm is worthless to savage. I am slowing things down. Try not to think about it anymore. What is met to be will be and i shall not harp on it anymore. I do not want to struggle on it any longer. Its a risk of maintaining something which is not met to be in the first place. Most of my close ones commented. The choice is still up to me and i decide to take what advise on. They told me that, probably your friends and family loves myself more than he does. They just said, Seven got to love herself more and i think i really should. Putting feelings aside, i should stop my doings when he is concern. Live on happily and be the happy me. At a certain time, its too late to apologise. Let unhappiness go, forgive but remember the wrongs in order not to make the same mistake again. I will observe everything around me in order not to make the same mistake again. Friends get tired of telling me off over and over again. I know they really care and they just want me to be happy. Thanks my dearies.