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He is a true real man.
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I seen another side of this man. A true Responsible Real man. You know dear Cindy, you got yourself a real great family husband.Your husband is a remarkable young man at this age. The kind of responsibility he shoulders. Amazing ! I learn from this young man and learn about how much he scarifies for his family he loves so much. He can do so much for the household, getting expensive gifts for people he loves but humbling himself wearing a piece of torn singlet. Many may think that, well he is just another richman's son driving a Porsche but that is not the case. He is the sole-bread winner of the family. His dad doesnt work anymore, he is supporting his younger brother's studies in UK and he is the headman taking care of the entire household. He runs and bring in sales in their business, gives allowances to his dad and pays for everything in the family. I can say he is the provider. He is a MAN and he is only 25 this year. Many people out there maybe physically a man but mentally still a boy. You maybe 35 this year, reading my blog, but a boy in you. Because you do not want to shoulder responsibilty. Do you know It is only responsibility and true commitments differentiate a boy from a man. Man! Micheal you are the youngest few on my list of a remarkable man.
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Responsibilty
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Well I have a few friends/mentor I do admire, some married, some not. Of course my daddy kong is one of them. Wee Sin is one of them. But I have to say that they are actually people like you and I. Who had been through tons of Shits and crap, some maybe born with a sliver spoon but they still been through great emotional breakdowns, pains and brokenness. But here they are, and that makes who they are right now. I admire you guys ! Remarkable people make great leaders. If you are wondering why are you always a follower, Or maybe you think you are a leader, But leading for a wrong reason. The answer for it : People only follow a leader with true dignity, true commitments and responsible leader. Maybe you think you are a leader, but in fact you are just another lost sheep looking for a Shepherd. You might have the potential of a great leader but well you just murder it with pride and selfishness. Life is short, probably only a good 80 years? I am 25 now and at this age 25 marks my turning point. I've already live a quarter of my lifespan. I had been a utter crap for the past 25 years not being the excellence of who I should be. I am not saying that I am lousy, but I could be better. If you are thinking that you have another 5 or 10 years to waste till you hit 30 or 40 years old, well . . . . time to think about it. By the time the children of your peers had already finish their PSLE and you are still lingering in your self indulging worldly comfort. And By the time you really decides to have a family, get ready to play football with your son when you are 55 years old in which someday you might not even live to see your grandchildren.
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So for those men tune in my blog and had been in a relationship leading to a marriage : Time to tune in this responsible man challenge. I am talking about you Roy, time to tie Joze down and be her shepherd. She is forever a lost sheep.
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For those who are married and tuning in my garden regularly, Wife support your husband and encourage him in things he does, be understanding towards the family because the role of the wife is to be a support to your husband. Husband you must love your wife. You are not forced to make the vow, it is because you love her.
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As for me I believe in love, it is just that my love is a lost sheep. * smiles * Nevertheless, it is fine with me. I trust God to plan my life and I have no worries. God is planning for the best for me.
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Night everybody !
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Prayers: God I pray for my hubhub, where my love for him can be exchanged to become blessings to him in all walks of his daily life. I do not ask for a return from him and he does not owe me any favors. Let my amount of love to him turn into opportunities in his career, strength of overcoming and a joyful smile from his heart. I love him and God please protect him.
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