Day 302

Day 302

I woke up this morning and told God during my morning devotion, Father will I have a wonderful wedding with the one I love? Daddy God replied; of course! But I asked who? An image flashed across my mind. Then I checked with God again saying, Dad, you said that the yoke shouldn't mix, he is a non-believer dad! God replied in a funny way, watch me and it was Isaiah 54:17 No weapon formed against you will prosper. I went.... oh.... and I went to this verse on the same book Isaiah 55;7 while he may be found, call him while he is near, let the wicked one abandon his way, and the sinful one his thoughts; let him return to the lord so he will freely forgive.  Ermmm... and it says; My words that come from my mouth will not return to me empty but accomplish what I please and will prosper in what I send it to do. You will do it, go out and reach his hands in joy and be peacefully guided. This love is made by the name of God and it is an everlasting sign that will not be destroyed. Erm, ok, who else can I trust other than my faithful Father in heaven! In man? No no, man can disappoint you BUT not God !!

And . . . .

When I see my buddy having those sarcastic comments over fb with his wife, I really wondered, why does he get married. Husband and wife shooting each other on fb is really so sad man! People, PLEASE don't GET MARRIED to him/her if you don't intend to face him/her everyday for the rest of your life! You ARE Torturing yourself and YOU are antagonising the other party!

My buddy wanted to be a responsible man by getting married and be a father of his child BUT ended up antagonising himself and his wife. Responsibility need to be consistent if you have not realise that. There is no way to be responsible for 2 months, irresponsible for 3 months and so forth and on . . . . . A marriage is not child's play.

A marriage is a new walk sharing of lives together, sharing the same heart, walking hand in hand no matter how difficult the situation might turn out to be. If you do not intend to do that for your other-half, you have no rights to accept or propose a marriage. For you will end up blaming the other party when things goes wrong, end up looking into faults when things are not ideal. Minor imperfections in a marriage without a strong foundation of Love can lead to crazy pile-up of destructions.

That is why, I choosed to trust God in my husband, my marriage, and my future. God will strengthen them through many many stages, which will be when the day my husband ask for my hand that we combine our hearts as one. Our foundation of Love is built so strong by God that nothing is going to break us apart. When 2 hearts combined as 1 with the rope tied through Jesus Christ, we know that is the marriage God gave. In every challenges ahead, we will level-up, challenges, level-up again !

I pray for a husband

Father, shape my husband according to your heart, shape my husband to be a leader who leads, shape my husband according to your character, he is strong, never a coward. He is faithful and he is kind. He is a man full of integrity. He is humble and he knows how to care of people around him. He is always full of surpises for me, he is always filled with love for me. A man who is positive and holds the power of strength through your spirit. He is my shoulders to share my burdens, he is a real man shaped personally by the hands of yours Father. Amen.

Myself

Father I pray that you shape me up too. Shape me up to be kind, a heart to love and guard it up from bitterness. A heart that is always giving, a generous woman that will always bring my husband proud. A strong woman who is never give-up to adversity and challenges, a woman of the new generation who support my husband in encouragment and wisdom to plan for the family. A woman who cooks well, and runs the household well. Faithful to my husband and always caring towards my family. Let me commit my whole future in your lovely hands.