Today, a major fight happened in office. It was servere and their wedding was called off. You ask me as a onlooker and knowing EK. He is a friend I can call upon, a nice colleague but for a lifetime partner, I will probably shake my head. I am not trying to comment on his ability in work in which I've never doubted his capablilty. Well no one is perfect. When there is this, there bound to be that. Thats always the case. I wonder why do people dont like the idea of a pre-marriage counselling session? Because, if it is for me, I will definately want my partner and I to go through that. Marriage is not just an agreement. It is a convenant. It is recognised under civil law as well as God's law. I will never want to get married to a person God disagree. The yoke should not mix. Therefore the saying is as this, at least it applies to me. I can date a non-christian, but I will never get married to one. A family of a different faith causes more problems then you can ever imagine. How to stand strong to fight strongholds, principalities when the yoke is mixed? One party maybe draining life off the other. Husband and wife should be the one who encourages and lift each other up, and not demeaning or running the other party down with verbal hurts. But at least in a christian marriage, when one hurt the other party, the offended one knows how to seek God and pray for their other half. Vice versa. learning to love through God is the best solution in any relationship. Because sometimes, God do instructs us to do things we dont want to, example : apologising for wrongs we have not done. Asking for forgiviness which our pride and ego doesn't say yes to. A non believer Christian or a back slided one will not be able to understand that. I was reminded the other night by a fellow sister in Christ about woman praying for a husband. I did, I really did pray for a husband. Then she was saying this, no wonder we do not have bfs, because we didnt ask for bfs, we asked for a husband. Somehow, I am so sure that the next guy I date, I do not know who lar, but I am pretty sure God did something to my life which is how God can do something to his life too! I will be good and I will be so blessed. God is always good to me and knows what is best for me. AMEN.
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